BDSM is nothing but pure abuse. Have you heard that one before? Don’t let yourself fall for the myths and bad stereotypes. Discover top 5 myths about BDSM, debunked by an expert. Enjoy kinky sex now!
Top 5 Myths About BDSM, Debunked By An Expert
Myth #1: BDSM Is Violent & Pure Abuse
Consent and mutual trust are hallmarks of the BDSM community. Most kinksters will meet potential partners before playing domination and submission games, to discuss each other’s goals, personal boundaries, any health conditions they might have, and safe words, to ensure that a sexual encounter will be both; sexually satisfying and completely safe. So no, BDSM is not dangerous when done correctly.
Myth #2: BDSM Is A Fetish
BDSM is not a fetish, despite the fact that people often mistakenly refer to it as such. According to sex expert and therapist Sandra LaMorgese, being kinky usually means enhancing sexual intimacy with your partner by adding new and creative elements to sex, such as trying edible sex items or utilising stimulating gel.
While having a fetish, on the contrary, means that you as an individual are sexually aroused by an object, body part, or role-play even without a partner. An individual with a fetish might masturbate while they hold, smell, rub, or taste the object, or they might ask their significant other to wear it or use it during sex. You can read full Sandra’s article here.
Myth #3: BDSM Is Uncommon
BDSM might be taboo for some, but it’s far from rare. A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine revealed that 1 in 3 respondents have engaged in some light form of bondage during sex. Additionally, in the UK, BDSM has been around since the late 60s or early 70s. So, no BDSM is not so uncommon.
Myth #4: All Submissives Are Weak
WRONG. Submissives are often exceptionally talented leaders, and members of society that take responsibility for others even when doing so could potentially harm them. They are often self-less, caring to the point of major self-sacrifice. So, no, being a submissive doesn’t equal being weak. After all, sometimes it takes more strength to kneel than it does to stand, right?
Myth #5: People in the BDSM Lifestyle Have a History of Abuse
Let’s face it, people with a history of abuse or trauma exist in all communities. So, of course, there will be kinky people with a history of abuse and trauma, just as there are kinky people with and without college degrees, kinky people who like or hate pop music and kinky people across different religious and political spectrums.
What myths have you heard about BDSM?
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