BDSM 101: How To Be A Great Submissive.
So… You love nothing more than being ordered around, spanked or bent over. Yes? More power to you!
You’ve identified your kink and you’re sticking with it.
However, did you know that there’s more to being a great submissive than letting someone do whatever they want with you? Discover top 6 tips on how to be a great submissive and enjoy kinky sex like never before. You can thank us later…
BDSM 101: How To Be A Great Submissive
#1 Understand What A Submissive Really Is
A submissive is an individual who willingly relinquishes control to another person (A dominant), usually to satisfy a sexual urge. Think you’re odd?
Don’t worry – you’re not. Far from it, really. In fact, becoming sexually submissive is one of the most common sexual fantasies. Just take a look at these statistics from the Kinsey Institute.
- 5-10% of Americans engage in BDSM practices for sexual pleasure.
- 55% of females and 50% of males reported having responded erotically to being bitten.
- 1.8% of sexually active people said they had been involved in BDSM in the previous year.
Clearly, for many individuals, the fantasy of being dominated and coerced to perform sexual acts can seem thrilling.
#2 Educate Yourself & Determine If You’re Really the Submissive Type
Becoming a sub is not a decision that should be made lightly. Before you decide to put yourself at the mercy of the dominant, educate yourself on all things submission. Read: Sextionary: A Dictionary for the BDSM Community.
#3 Know Your Needs…
Think why you want to do this (dominance & submission) at all – what do YOU expect to get in return? What are things that you haven’t tried but you would like to? What kinky activities are you into?
#4…And Your Limits
What are YOU not prepared to do? Don’t assume the dominant will know this. Know your limits and stand firm!
#5 Personal Grooming
Always be clean and well groomed – this includes fingernails, toenails, hair. Use a deodorant, but unless the dominant gives precise instructions, an unscented one is best, and no perfume.
#6 If Unsure – ALWAYS Ask Questions
As a sub, you must be willing and able to openly communicate with your partner to ensure that all sex play is truly consensual and enjoyable for both of you. So, if unsure always ask questions.
And if you do decide to open this new chapter in your life, have fun with it. You may choose to close it in the future, or it may become a big part of who you are. Either way, learn what you can from the experience and, most importantly, enjoy it!
As always,
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Also, feel free to check out this video and learn more about being a submissive:
