Whether you’ve been practising BDSM for years or just looking to explore the lifestyle, it all starts with the right toys. Discover 5 best BDSM toys for beginners. You know you’re curious…
New to BDSM? Looking for something lightly kinky? Here are a few BDSM toy suggestions to consider.
5 Best BDSM Toys For Beginners
1. Blindfold
Arguably the easiest (and, usually the cheapest) kink item to acquire, blindfolds should be in every BDSM lover’s collection. But, why are blindfolds so fun? Well, they provide sensory deprivation and they’re also incredibly safe. A simple sleep mask from Amazon or eBay can work perfectly for your BDSM play.
Expert Tip: When shopping for a mask, always look for the one that doesn’t apply direct pressure to your (or your partner’s) eyes and has an adjustable strap. Otherwise, if you buy a blindfold that puts extra pressure on the eyeballs, you may experience blurry vision for a few minutes once you take the mask off.
2. Handcuffs
Whether rubber or metal handcuffs are integral to kinky sex games. They can be used on the wrists and the ankles.
Expert Tip: When shopping for quality handcuffs, look for the leather ones that have a soft fuzzy lining on the inside. Your skin won’t twist and get irritated as you enjoy the pleasure.
3. Nipple Clamps
Nipple clamps are perfect for couples who like a side of pain with their pleasure. The clamps can be adjusted to your taste, and your significant other can tug on the chain to tease you. Sexy!
4. Paddles
Are you into spanking? If yes, you should definitely invest in a paddle.
Paddles offer such a wide range of sensations (and, of course, pleasures!). You can find them made from wood, metal, plastic, leather, faux, and many other materials that each gives different sensations.
However, if you’re a total beginner in the kink fun, it’s best sticking with large, padded paddles. The larger the surface area of the paddle, the less it will sting the skin.
Expert Tip: When getting used to a paddle, try it out on your own body first (for example, butt cheeks!) . This will help you get a sense of how hard you can swing it. When you’re using it on a partner, warm up the skin first with gentle smacks, then gradually up the amount of force.
5. Gags
Gags can be an excellent way to up the intensity of your sexual encounters without invoking pain.
Expert Tip: Since the gag will prevent you (or, your partner) from saying your safe-word, come up with a safe-word signal, like raising the hand or moving your head.
Have fun, and stay safe!
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