Feeling like adding some kink to your sex life and really making things steamy? Discover 5 best BDSM sex positions for kinky couples.
BDSM is hot for all kinds of reasons; the trust, the control, the power… For many, it’s something new (and exciting!), it’s a chance to play around with ideas of power and control, and it can help you dabble in things you never imagined might turn you on.
Here are some starter BDSM positions if you and your partner would like to give it a try.
5 Best BDSM Sex Positions For Kinky Couples
1. Doggy Style
Doggy Style is a classic (and, insanely hot!) position in which the man is the dominant partner.
There’s something a little wild, naughty, and playful about the doggy style that just amps up the passion and makes you lust for more… It’s also one of the easiest positions to spice up.
For example, if you’re a woman you can ask your partner to pull your hair or spank you. Just try to find something that you’re comfortable with and ask your man to do that for you.
If you’re a guy, remember that doggy style is all about YOU taking control over your woman. So, be confident and enjoy the deeper penetration with an erotic view from behind.
2. The Kinky Missionary
Missionary is a classic for a reason. Eye-gazing, skin-on-skin intimacy…
However, in the recent years, the position has got a reputation for being a bit too boring. Here are some ways you can spice it up.
First, use a vibrating penis ring. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin wrote in Bustle that clitoris stimulation is THE KEY to female arousal. But many ladies might feel too self-conscious touching themselves down there during missionary sex, she reported. That’s nothing a vibrating penis ring can’t solve… Right?
Additionally, if you’re a lady, you can try a little scratch on your significant other’s back or nibble his ear to make missionary EXTRA HOT.
3. Cowgirl
This cheeky sex position once again allows the recipient more control. If you’re a girl, you can put your legs on either side of him and control the pace, rhythm and how deep he goes. If he gets a bit too excited, show him a little restraint. Kinky!
4. 69
The 69 is a two-way pleasure. Each of you have access to the most sensitive areas of each other’s bodies with the lips and tongue. The vagina and penis are simultaneously stimulated for a moment of intense, shared pleasure… Hot!
5. Non-penetrative sex
Did you know that penetration of the vagina with the penis is NOT the only way to bring a woman to a climax?
So, feel free to explore other ways of touching to reach orgasm – these could include stimulation of the clit/nipples, genital-to-genital rubbing, sex toys, dirty talk or even masturbation in front of one another.
Just free your imagination and orgasm like never before!
What are your favourite BDSM sex positions? You on top? Her on top? On the floor? Outside?
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For more kinky sex tips for beginners, take a look at this video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVcOwSFJbiU
